Here is a list of books that I have found useful in my work with children and families:
Recommended Books for Children (recommended grade levels in parentheses)
Anger
Andrew's Angry Words by Dorothea Lachner, 1997 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears Get in a Fight by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1982 (K-2)
Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi, PhD., published by Free Spirit, 2000 (K-2)
The Very Angry Day That Amy Didn't Have by Lawrence Shapiro, 2000 (K-3)
When Sophie Gets Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang, PhD., 1999 (K-2)
Anxiety
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn, 2006
Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi, 2000 (K-2)
Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes, 2000 (K-2)
What to Do When you Worry Too Much: A Kid's Guide to Overcoming Anxiety by Dawn Huebner, 2005
Bullying/Teasing
Ben's Bad Day by Teddy Slater, 2007 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears and the Bully by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1993 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears and Too Much Teasing by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1995 (K-2)
Don't Laugh at Me by Steve Seskin & Allen Shamblin, 2002 (3-5)
My Secret Bully by Trudy Ludwig and Abigail Marble, 2004 (3-5)
The Recess Queen By Alexis O'Neill and Laura Huliska-Beth, 2002 (K-2)
Say Something by Peggy Moss and Lea Lyon, 2004 (3-5)
The Sneetches by Dr. Seuss, published by Random House, 1961 (K-5)
Conflict Resolution
Berenstain Bears Get in a Fight by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1982 (K-2)
Divorce
Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1988. (Pre-K-3)
Diversity and Tolerance
The Alphabet Kids Series by Patrice Samara and Allegra Joyce Kassin, 2010. (PreK-5).
More information on the Alphabet Kids Series at: http://www.alphabetkids.com/
Feelings
Double Dip Feelings by Barbara Cain, published by Little, Brown and Company, 2001. (Pre-K-2)
The Feelings Book by Todd Parr, 2000. (Pre-K-2)
Glad Monster, Sad Monster: A Book about Feelings by Ed Emberley & Anne Miranda, 1997. (Pre-K-2)
Friendships
Berenstain Bears and the Trouble with Friends, by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1986 (K-2)
How to be a Friend: A Guide to Making Friends and Keeping Them by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1998 (K-3)
How to Lose all your Friends by Nancy Carlson, 1994 (K-3)
Grief/Loss
When Dinosaurs Die by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1996 (K-3)
Honesty
Liar Liar Pants on Fire by Diane deGroat, 2003 (K-3)
Manners
Monster Manners by Bethany Roberts and Andrew Glass, 1996 (K-2)
Moving
Berenstain Bears' Moving Day, by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1981 (Pre-K-2)
I'm Not Moving, Mama! by Nancy White Carlstrom, 1990 (Pre-K-1)
Meg and Jack are Moving by Paul Dowling, 1989 (Pre-K-2)
Stress
Don't Pop Your Cork on Mondays!: The Children's Anti-Stress Book by Adolph Moser and Dav Pilkey, published by Landmark Editions, 1988
Recommended Books for Parents
The Bully, The Bullied and The Bystander by Barbara Coloroso, 2003
Getting Beyond Bullying and Exclusion by Ronald Mah, 2009
Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls by Rachel Simmons, published by Harvest Books, 2003
Queen Bee Moms & Kingpin Dads: Dealing with the Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Counselors Who Can Make--or Break--Your Child's Future by Rosalind Wiseman, 2006
Queen Bees and Wannabees: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and Other Realities of Adolescence by Rosalind Wiseman, 2002
Raising a Thinking Child by Myrna Shure, 1994
Self-Esteem Games: 300 Activities That Make Children Feel Good About Themselves by Barbara Sher, 1998
The You and Me Workbook (Social Skills) by Lisa Schab, 2001
Recommended Books for Children (recommended grade levels in parentheses)
Anger
Andrew's Angry Words by Dorothea Lachner, 1997 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears Get in a Fight by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1982 (K-2)
Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi, PhD., published by Free Spirit, 2000 (K-2)
The Very Angry Day That Amy Didn't Have by Lawrence Shapiro, 2000 (K-3)
When Sophie Gets Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang, PhD., 1999 (K-2)
Anxiety
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn, 2006
Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine Agassi, 2000 (K-2)
Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes, 2000 (K-2)
What to Do When you Worry Too Much: A Kid's Guide to Overcoming Anxiety by Dawn Huebner, 2005
Bullying/Teasing
Ben's Bad Day by Teddy Slater, 2007 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears and the Bully by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1993 (K-2)
Berenstain Bears and Too Much Teasing by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1995 (K-2)
Don't Laugh at Me by Steve Seskin & Allen Shamblin, 2002 (3-5)
My Secret Bully by Trudy Ludwig and Abigail Marble, 2004 (3-5)
The Recess Queen By Alexis O'Neill and Laura Huliska-Beth, 2002 (K-2)
Say Something by Peggy Moss and Lea Lyon, 2004 (3-5)
The Sneetches by Dr. Seuss, published by Random House, 1961 (K-5)
Conflict Resolution
Berenstain Bears Get in a Fight by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1982 (K-2)
Divorce
Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1988. (Pre-K-3)
Diversity and Tolerance
The Alphabet Kids Series by Patrice Samara and Allegra Joyce Kassin, 2010. (PreK-5).
More information on the Alphabet Kids Series at: http://www.alphabetkids.com/
Feelings
Double Dip Feelings by Barbara Cain, published by Little, Brown and Company, 2001. (Pre-K-2)
The Feelings Book by Todd Parr, 2000. (Pre-K-2)
Glad Monster, Sad Monster: A Book about Feelings by Ed Emberley & Anne Miranda, 1997. (Pre-K-2)
Friendships
Berenstain Bears and the Trouble with Friends, by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1986 (K-2)
How to be a Friend: A Guide to Making Friends and Keeping Them by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1998 (K-3)
How to Lose all your Friends by Nancy Carlson, 1994 (K-3)
Grief/Loss
When Dinosaurs Die by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown, 1996 (K-3)
Honesty
Liar Liar Pants on Fire by Diane deGroat, 2003 (K-3)
Manners
Monster Manners by Bethany Roberts and Andrew Glass, 1996 (K-2)
Moving
Berenstain Bears' Moving Day, by Stan & Jan Berenstain, 1981 (Pre-K-2)
I'm Not Moving, Mama! by Nancy White Carlstrom, 1990 (Pre-K-1)
Meg and Jack are Moving by Paul Dowling, 1989 (Pre-K-2)
Stress
Don't Pop Your Cork on Mondays!: The Children's Anti-Stress Book by Adolph Moser and Dav Pilkey, published by Landmark Editions, 1988
Recommended Books for Parents
The Bully, The Bullied and The Bystander by Barbara Coloroso, 2003
Getting Beyond Bullying and Exclusion by Ronald Mah, 2009
Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls by Rachel Simmons, published by Harvest Books, 2003
Queen Bee Moms & Kingpin Dads: Dealing with the Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Counselors Who Can Make--or Break--Your Child's Future by Rosalind Wiseman, 2006
Queen Bees and Wannabees: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and Other Realities of Adolescence by Rosalind Wiseman, 2002
Raising a Thinking Child by Myrna Shure, 1994
Self-Esteem Games: 300 Activities That Make Children Feel Good About Themselves by Barbara Sher, 1998
The You and Me Workbook (Social Skills) by Lisa Schab, 2001